Women deserve to smile, not to cry.

Eid’l Fitr. End of Ramadan. Worldwide holiday, no classes. So, here I am, stuck at home, trolling around Facebook, Tumblr and Twitter for about 2 hours now. As I lit my cigarette, I was scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed and found an interesting post about love.

Siyempre dahil fresh from a break up ako, basta sweet ang photo o may salitang love sa post, binabasa ko. Pinoy, eh! Alam ng mas masakit pag ginawa, gagawin pa rin. Hahaha!

Anyway, here’s the post. The author is unknown, but I salute him for this. πŸ™‚

A must read! πŸ™‚
REPOSTED: From a man’s point of view. ❀

“Ang mga babae, madaldal/mabunganga.” Oo, wala talagang tigil ang bibig nila sa pag-rachada sa kakasalita. Lalo na sa tuwing pinapaalala nila sayo na oras na para inumin ang iyong gamot, kapag nagtatanung sila kung kumain ka na ba, kapag ginising ka nila sa umaga upang hindi ma-late at sa mga pagkakataon na nag-aalala sila sayo at tinatanung kung nasaan ka na at bakit hindi ka pa umuuwi. Walang duda, madaldal nga. Hayaan mo na, balang araw, siguro magbabago din sila. Tipong maririnig mo lang ee “Oo”, “Hinde” at “Pwede”. Para kayong naglalaro ng Pinoy Henyo. Romantic siguro ng buhay nyo nun.

“Ang mga babae, mashadong sentimental.” Sinabi mo pa. Tandang tanda nga nila ang petsa at lugar kung saan kayo unang nag-date, isinulat niya din sa kanyang diary kung ano ang mga ginawa ninyo, nakatago at ingat na ingat siya sa mga larawan nyong dalawa, daig pa niya ang Smithsonian sa pag-aalaga ng mga iniregalo mo at kahit kailan hindi niya nalilimutan ang mga importanteng okasyon tulad ng anniversary, monthsary, weeksary o birthday mo. Nakaka-inis ba? Ok lang yan, malay mo next time, hindi na siya ganun. Tipong i-aasa na lang niya sa Facebook ang iyong kaarawan. Tapos tamang post na lang sa wall mo ng “hapi bday”.

“Ang mga babae, emosyonal.” They cry about movies. They get teary with a romantic novel. They blush and gasp upon seeing a picture of a cute dog or a cuddly baby. Bakit ba ganun sila? Buti na lang tayo hindi. Kinikimkim lang naten lahat ng emosyon sa loob hanggang sa sumabog at atakihin sa puso o di naman kaya ee magpapakalasing tapos magwawala at maghahamon ng wrestling. Di ba mas logical un? Madalas pa mag-imagine na ikakasal kayo sa simbahan. Lagi nag a-iloveyou, imissyou, take care at mwah mwah sa text. Asar ka na ba at nacocornyhan? Ayos lang yan. Darating din siguro ang time na titigil siya at isesend ang mga un sa iba.

Women are probably the greatest gift to men, from God, beside beer and sizzling sisig. At para sken, women deserve all advantages, lalo na sa pag-ibig. Sana lahat ng babae ay maging masaya ang lovelife. Sana, walang babaeng heart-broken, kasi, tayong mga lalake, we’re meant to pursue them and it’s okay if we fail from time to time. It’s the way nature intended it. Gaya ng isang leon sa usa o pag-ikot ng earth sa paligid ng araw. Mas okay kung tayo na lang ung masasaktan. Ee sila? Isipin mo, nagkakaroon sila ng “dalaw” at nababaliw kada buwan, nabubuntis at nahihirapan ng 9 months, at pinaka matindi sa lahat, kailangan pa nilang panatilihing makinis at walang buhok ang kanilang mga kili-kili. Ano ba namang pasayahin sila at gawing “scar-free” ang kanilang buhay pag-ibig.

And if you are with a great gal, do everything to make her happy. Don’t ever break her heart. Wag kang magpauto sa mga statistics, na nagsasabing, mas marami ang babae sa lalake, kaya okay lang mang-chiks. Ano pa bang gusto mo? Hindi pa ba sapat na minahal ka niya sa kabila ng iyong pagiging engot at kawalan ng Romantic DNA sa katawan? Malaki man ang papolasyon nila sa mundo, napaka-liit ng tsansang makakilala ka ulet ng katulad niya na magtya-tyaga sayo. πŸ™‚

Was I wrong? I guess not. Its definitely worth the few minutes I spent reading it. Every man should know this. Why? Well, nowadays, these self proclaimed “men” do nothing but break women’s hearts. They do everything for a girl and when they get her, pagsasawaan lang. And then they find new girls, and leave the first one broken and hurt. Every detail in this post is more than a hundred percent true. And until now, I’m still hoping to find the guy who’d understand me, in every way and wouldn’t complain, simply because he loves me.

Idk. Maybe I was just really hurt with the way things ended between my husband to be and I. Although I know part of it was my fault, I still don’t know how I’d wake up everyday, knowing we’re living separate lives now, not caring about what the other one’s doing, or who he’s with.

But I know things will fall into place eventually. And these things are obstacles God has given me, to make me stronger for more challenges He’s laid out for me in the future.

So to all the guys out there, TREAT YOUR WOMEN RIGHT! And don’t ever make them cry.

To the girls, don’t be afraid to fall. If one guy hurts you, or if people in the past have hurt you, it doesn’t mean the next ones would too.

Ang lalim ba ng pinag huhugutan? Hahaha. Masakit pa, eh.

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2 thoughts on “Women deserve to smile, not to cry.

  1. i’ve also read this post in fb. so true! really nice! πŸ˜‰ i know how you feel, hope you feel better soon πŸ™‚ btw, i like reading your blogs, you’re a good writer πŸ˜‰

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